Camera: Sony Nex 6
Lens: Meike 35mm
ISO: 800
Aperture: f2.0
Location: Ayala Grounds, Cebu Business Park
Edited with Adobe Lightroom
Inspired by Mikuta's Instagram style
Earlier today, one of my clients asked me about how I'm able to stick around in this industry since 2009. It's true that it's really difficult to put yourself online and compete with thousands of freelancers for a regular clientele. Somewhere out there, someone else will always be better than you - brighter, younger, more creative. So, how in this world did I stick around and still play my game 9 years after I started out? I'm going to share a little secret with you: I didn't compete aggressively for attention. I didn't do paid ads on Facebook, instead I stick by a certain mantra.
Here's what I did: I SSS daily.
SSS stands for 'Share Something Small' - I share a piece of me to the world in a regular basis.
Some of you may be asking how I do it when I'm technically a Netflix-and-sleep kind of girl. Well, it doesn't always have to be on social media. Most of the things that I share are with my clients - in simple, unfiltered conversations.
Here's what I usually share to my clients:
1. My personal life
Yes, you read that right. Every day before I start my work, I greet them 'Good morning' and tell them about my morning and how I've prepared for the day. It's usually just about coffee & breakfast, but I know it makes them comfortable to open up to me as well. Having personal & candid conversations paved way to more trusting & relaxed relationships between me and my clients.
2. My honest thoughts
You should read the news overseas sometimes. Those topics are really good conversation-starters. Sometimes, I drop by some Australian news websites in the morning and read the hottest headlines (example: economy, finance, a tragic local news, etc.). I turn to my Australian clients and talk to them about it. They would usually be surprised about how interested I am with their current events and it makes them feel like I'm truly involved in their businesses and their lives.
3. My struggles with the tasks at hand
Some business owners think of their contractors/freelancers as people who will just be completing tasks for them. Though that is OK, it's not really my type of work ethic. As much as possible, I want to build relationships because that's how businesses thrive for a long period of time. So how do I build relationships with my clients? I show them my human side professionally.
If there's something that troubles me, I stay honest about it. If I think a project is going in a downward spiral, I openly give my thoughts and concerns. The key here is that whenever you mention your struggles, it has to be followed by a suggestion on how you're going to overcome them - that's what I mean by 'professionally': showing a weakness but presenting another possible strength or solution. Trust me, when you open up rather than keep your mouth shut, your clients will realize that you are a proactive part of the business and not just a passive freelancer who doesn't think that much.
The best result that this technique brought me? Word-of-mouth recommendations from previous and existing clients. Why? Because they know that I'm a real person, and not a bot. Try it out and try not to overthink about how you're performing [because that's going to eat you alive]. Start small - little by little, day by day until it becomes a habit. You'll be surprised by the impact that it will bring not only to yourself, but to your clients as well.
If you think that this is a huge step for you, you may just be overthinking. 😊 Just relax and let the words flow naturally. Remember SSS!
Good luck x
Eve
Today started out like every other Sunday ~ but with the exemption that it has been super amazing in a spiritual sense.
Nowadays, it's really hard to find the time to truly enjoy the moment and just be in it. Somehow, the bills & work concerns are too sneaky to really occupy a space in my mind even in the most inconvenient hour of the day... like 2 o'clock in the morning. What's refreshing about this morning for me was I got the time to truly savor the day - to feel alive, to enjoy my morning coffee and to just sing along with the songs in the radio. It was wonderful and super refreshing! (You should take the time and try it too!).
I realized that I had thousands of opportunities to be happy instead of waiting for happiness to come, but didn't grab those because I was too serious on my daily grind.
I realized that people are working hard to be 'successful and happy' when in fact, they can be happy even if they aren't successful yet.
I realized that there are joys in simple things that we are failing to see because we are looking at something else, far from our reach and even non-existent.
Take the time to truly appreciate your life, to marvel in the mystery of your own being, to fully enjoy the moment and to live a life with no regrets.
I know some of you here are busy people. But at the end of the day, as this question to yourself: "Have I really done something to feel alive?'
xoxo
Eve
Here’s a story from Buddhist Monk, Thich Nhat Hanh, about ‘washing the dishes to wash the dishes’ and the difference between being mindful and mindless:
“In the United States, I have a close friend named Jim Forest… Last winter, Jim came to visit. I usually wash the dishes after we’ve finished the evening meal, before sitting down and drinking tea with everyone else.
One night, Jim asked if he might do the dishes. I said, "Go ahead, but if you wash the dishes you must know the way to wash them.” Jim replied, “Come on, you think I don’t know how to wash the dishes?” I answered, “There are two ways to wash the dishes. The first is to wash the dishes in order to have clean dishes and the second is to wash the dishes in order to wash the dishes.”
Jim was delighted and said, “I choose the second way-to wash the dishes to wash the dishes.” From then on, Jim knew how to wash the dishes. I transferred the “responsibility” to him for an entire week.
If while washing dishes, we think only of the cup of tea that awaits us, thus hurrying to get the dishes out of the way as if they were a nuisance, then we are not “washing the dishes to wash the dishes.”
What’s more, we are not alive during the time we are washing the dishes.
In fact we are completely incapable of realizing the miracle of life while standing at the sink.
If we can’t wash the dishes, the chances are we won’t be able to drink our tea either. While drinking the cup of tea, we will only be thinking of other things, barely aware of the cup in our hands. Thus we are sucked away into the future - and we are incapable of actually living one minute of life.“
~ Thich Nhat Hanh
What are you focusing now? Are you reading to read? Or are you reading for something else? Your focus and mindfulness are always a conscious choice that you make in everything you do. When you are present in the moment, it shows in your output - it shows in your life.
When you are aware of what you’re doing in the moment, it means that you’re paying attention to the details. The attention to details will reflect in the quality of your work and results. That’s why mindfulness - BEING PRESENT - is surprisingly one of the best qualities of happy and successful people.
Experience every minute. Take delight in every moment of your life. Appreciate even the rhythm of your breaths. Witness the miracle of life around you.
xoxo
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